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Day 261

FORTY THREE years ago today, I met Alice Marie Yoder and 1,000 days later we had our very special wedding day.  New students at the college were invited to spend some time in a professor’s home to get acquainted.  Both of us ended up at the same professor’s home, and that was the start of a great relationship.

To Alice, my Love!

Thanks for letting me into your heart,

And sharing your life with me!

You accepted me for who I was,

The young man from West of the Mississippi.

Soon after our marriage, man landed on the moon!

Two great events in a single year!

You’ve been my best supporter,

On the many paths my life has taken me!

It’s been a pleasure to be your husband,

Pilot, pastor, boss, photographer, and best friend!

I’ve enjoyed hiking with you in Colorado,

Arizona, India, and in Nepal!

You are the best cook in the whole wide world,

And can make sweet rolls that are loved by all!

Our many guests have consumed 1,000’s of your chocolate chip cookies,

And many, many loaves of your delicious home-made bread.

You were very adaptive in your cooking and baking,

Whether you were using an electric, gas, or wood cookstove!.

Besides being a great wife,

You are a great mother, and grandmother!

With your communication skills you make a great story-teller,

Whether for guests, your sons, or grandsons.

You can tell many tales from Pennsylvania, Virginia, Iowa,

As well as Canada, Iowa, and Bangladesh.

Thanks again for who you are,

And what you mean to me.

Marland, your Grateful Husband

Septmember 18, 2009

Blowing Bubbles!

Day 260

ALICE WITH HALIM’S MOTHER after we had Iftar (meal right after day of fasting) with Halim’s family who live in Mohammadia housing.

Sweet smiles

Day 259

ADOPTION DAY – This little orphan is adopted by a young couple who has been wanting children for five years.  It was a very happy day for them and our friend Donna who did a lot to arrange for this adoption.  The new Father’s Mother, and the new Mother’s Father were present for the event.  We had met the Mother’s Father in Joypara, so I knew the family.  I was honored to be a part of this special time as photographer.

Father’s Mother (l), Mother (c) and Father (r) with their new son.

Orphan finds a home!

Day 258

ALICE’S KITCHEN where many kinds of food are prepared.  Mashed potatoes and gravy.  Chicken, beef and fish curries.  Chapatis, bread, muffins, french pizzas, kitchuri, and cheese omeletes.  Typically our helper cooks on Monday and Alice or I cook the rest of the days.  My specialty would be the breakfast omelets, or bringing in dahl, baji, and nan-ruti from a local hotel (restaurant) for breakfast.  I forgot to  mention that this is the hottest room in the house.  In many climates, this is where people would huddle to get warm, but those days would be rare here!!

Kitchen

Day 257

OUR DINING ROOM with part of the entry room showing on the left.  The left is where we put our outside sandals and switch to our apt. sandals or go bare-footed.  There is also where guests put their sandals.  Without this procedure there would be a lot of sand or dirt to walk through.   Alice was doing the bargaining for the dining room table at Towne Hall Bazaar.  You should have seen her bargaining in Bangla.  Of course she had drawn a crowd, who all wanted to see what she was going to pay for the table.  She had fun, they had fun, and when the owner agreed to the price, and Alice agreed and then I agreed and forked out the taka!

Dining Room

Day 256

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Aleta my beti (dau.)!!    May you have a very special day, and a great year.  Aleta was five days old on that special day when Alice and I met in the Shenandoah Valley of Virginia, all of us oblivious that someday we would be good friends in the georgeous city of Dhaka!!

Aleta is a good friend who, Alice and I have “adopted.”  This year she is also Jensen’s (our oldest grandson) school teacher.

Aleta

Day 255

OUR APARTMENT as seen upon entering the door.  This is especially for Cindy and Charles.   The dining room on the left.  The window of dining room is to the vent that runs the full heighth of our 9 floor apartment building.  Down the hallway on the right you see my computer desk, etc.  On the right you see a plant just at the end of the living room, and then the door to the kitchen next on the right.  At the end of the hallway there is a bedroom to the left and the right.

Home

Day 254

JATIO SANGSHAD BHABAN the Parliament House of Bangladesh is one of the twentieth century’s utmost architectural structures. This stunning building was designed by famous architect Louis Kahn. It was made of mostly concrete and marble showing a rich blend of ancient and modern architecture. Use of different geometrical shape and floating outlook are some unique attractions of this glorious creation

Today September 11 brings back some sad memories for the world.  I’m glad for the good relations between Bangladesh and the U.S.A.

Stone and Marble

Day 253

BABY of Street-worker who is getting help.  Hopefully the cycle will be broken and he will have a brighter future.

Leg Bracelet for a toy!

Day 252

STREET SWEEPER in action on street beside the Parliament building.  Years ago some Hindus were brought into the city to sweep the streets because they were of the caste of street-sweepers.  Since this job pays better than some and there are so many jobless, others are applying for these jobs.  This basically takes away some of the job security they used to have because no one else wanted to do this menial job.  Each morning the whole city gets swept.  They do a great job, which must be done again day after day!

Orange in motion!

Day 251

FAKIR at Mirpur 1 Mazar.  A fakir or faqir is a Sufi, especially one who performs feats of endurance or apparent magic.  Another fakir who seemed more friendly invited me to come back at 7:30 pm for the “iftar” (breaking the fast).  The mazar is a place where a Muslim saint was buried and a shrine has been built.  Many people come here  making wishes and then give alms to the poor,  including the fakirs.  It also has turned into a place where young street workers hang out.

Fakir

Day 250

WHAT IS THE FUTURE for this young Bengali boy?  What is he thinking.  Somehow, somewhere, sometime someone can give him hope for a future.  Is this hope in “Digital Bangladesh?”  He is holding a cellphone.   Hopefully when he calls out for help, someone will help.

Little Bengali boy